Last summer I went on a second date with a 33 year old woman named Angela. We met up at a popular hike in our city, hugged briefly and proceeded with our trek. In retrospect, suggesting a hike was a poor decision on my part, which I will explain shortly. During the hike, she mentioned…
A Confusing Dream
This is a dream I had about one of my friends, Brianna, which caused me to reflect on how much I was attracted to her. Before you read it, just a quick disclaimer: this did NOT actually happen in real life. It was a dream. So please do not call the police. Brianna was almost finished…
When You Have a Crush on Your Best Friend
I think this situation is more common than we think when we’re attracted to girls but also have a lot of female friends. I can’t remember exactly how I became friends with Brianna. I met her at the gym, where she worked at the front desk. I recognized her from the recreational soccer league we…
Turning Down a Threesome
Before my first sexual experience with a girl I was oblivious to my attraction for women. After the threesome experience in January, I became very aware of how attracted I was to women. Some of them I found cute and others downright hot. It was interesting because I was not necessarily physically attracted to certain…
5 Tips on How to Find a Woman for a Threesome
The elusive unicorn… If you are new to open relationships or polyamory you may never have heard this term other than in children’s stories. Here it refers to a person, often female, who wants to have sex with couples and in some cases date an existing couple. These women are called unicorns because they are…
6 Tips for Avoiding Online Dating Burnout
Many of us have been there. We get some matches and start chatting with a few people simultaneously. We go on several dates in a week and don’t connect with a single person. So we go back on the app and continue chatting with others. Some guys are so charming online, and so attractive! But…
My First Threesome
A few weeks after our ski trip (see post My First Time with a Girl), I met up with Suzy at a busy bar downtown after she got off work. She told me my hair looked nice. I had straightened it, but also burned part of it on a candle, which I told her and…
My First Time with a Girl
Let me start by saying before this event I am about to describe, I had never done anything sexual with a girl. Never made out with any of my female friends in high school or university. Never even flirted with girls and thought about what it would be like to kiss them. When I had…
My Epic Failure at Monogamy
In the summer of 2015, my 5 year relationship ended. I was devastated even though it was my fault. I started reading a bunch of relationship websites and blogs and one one in particular I really liked. After reading several posts on this blog that encouraged non-monogamy (The Blackdragon Blog, now Alpha Male 2.0), I…