Before my first sexual experience with a girl I was oblivious to my attraction for women. After the threesome experience in January, I became very aware of how attracted I was to women. Some of them I found cute and others downright hot. It was interesting because I was not necessarily physically attracted to certain girls I thought were beautiful, like my best friend from high school. We’d known each other since Grade 9 and I thought of her more as a sister. Whereas with other girls I thought were just kind of cute, I was suddenly thinking about what it would be like to kiss them and touch them. My roommate Amber was one of the latter.
My roommate Amber rented a ski in/ski out condo for a group of her friends to come up and celebrate her 29th birthday at a local ski resort. She and her boyfriend Tom, who she was seeing again, had invited me.
I drove up after finishing some project work and when I arrived Amber and some of her friends were already drinking and joking around in the hot tub. I opened one of the drinks I’d brought and joined them in the tub. Encouraged by the boys around us, Amber and I made a contest of trying to balance beer cans on our butts. I can’t remember who won but a lot of beer was lost.
Amber told me I had a nice butt and asked me to turn around. Her and Tom took turns squeezing it which turned me on. At this point I was buzzed enough to go with it and so I shook my ass for them and danced around a bit to the music playing on the bluetooth speaker.
After getting out of the hot tub, we changed and a few of us had a tequila shot while dancing in the kitchen and waiting for the others. Amber and I made eye contact and kissed, which turned into a make out session. I was not expecting that as I did not think there was any attraction between us previously. We were roommates and saw each other every day, and we’d never flirted before. However I did remember that a few weeks ago when we were at the gym together talking about guys she had casually suggested I have a threesome with her and Tom. I’d laughed and said I didn’t know about that.
When the others were ready we headed out to one of the bars in “the village”. While waiting for a lift to take us to a higher level of the mountain, Amber came over to me and started kissing me. I kissed her back and we made out against the wall on the side of the ski rental shop. It was dark out and we thought we were being sneaky, away from the others’ view. She was touching my ass through my jeans and even rubbing my crotch, which I was momentarily taken aback by but then I went with it and mirrored her actions on her.
I thought she was cute as she was fit and had pretty blue eyes with long eyelashes but I hadn’t felt super attracted to her until this night at the ski resort (why do a lot of sexy things happen to me at ski resorts?). Maybe it was just the alcohol, but I’d gotten drunk with her several times before that and never felt like I’d wanted to take off her clothes.
I think what really made the difference was the physical touch when she was grabbing my butt. That’s what made me think of her in a sexual way compared to just a friend and roommate.
After a fifteen minute walk and a few more make out sessions we finally got to the bar. Like most saturday nights during ski season it was packed with plaid and wool legging-clad skiers and snowboarders who wanted to get crazy before waking up at 7am to ride down the mountain again. There was a cover band playing popular rock and pop songs for the crowd. I am not big into winter sports but I love the apres ski scene.
We got drinks and headed to the dance floor. At the this point I was pretty buzzed and really enjoying myself, dancing and chatting with Amber and her friends. I felt sexy and wanted something crazy to happen that night.
Amber and I made out on the dancefloor then Tom and I made out with explicit encouragement from her. I wasn’t attracted to him at all when sober mainly due to his mustache and salesman-like demeanour but I discovered he was a good kisser and enjoyed it that night. I danced sandwiched between Amber and Tom while they touched me, stroking my arms, grabbing my waist and grinding against my butt. I also made out with one of the other couples in their friend group. In the back of my mind I was worried the girl would be mad at me for kissing her boyfriend but she seemed ok with it at the time.
At one point that night, Amber told me Tom really wanted to have a threesome with us and asked if I was up for it.. Despite being drunk and aroused I’m proud of myself for thinking it through and deciding it was not a good idea. I remembered her telling me she had genital herpes and she was pretty sure Tom had given it to her. She told me she’d taken a double dose of her medication and that Tom would wear a condom. I didn’t feel it was worth the risk and politely declined.
Looking back on that moment the next day, I was shocked at how close I was to having another threesome when only a few months ago I had never even kissed a girl. I did not regret my decision because I was not actually attracted to Tom and as for Amber, I did not want to hook up with a roommate I currently lived with. I was still very curious about women though and wanted to explore more.